Life with Dylan

Author: Michelle

  • Beautiful You Mondays – Sugar Scrub

    Beauty isn’t just what you put on your face. Beauty is much more than that and it starts with how you feel inside, how your whole body feels. Nothing makes the skin quite as soft as a sugar scrub. So this week I decided to share an article I wrote for OC Moms about how to make your own sugar body scrub.

    Not everyone can afford a day at the spa – and even the busiest of moms can whip up a batch of this in no time at all. Customize your sugar scrub anyway you like. Make some for yourself or give a few to your friends. (They make wonderful gifts)

    Whether you choose to revive your body and senses in the morning or relax and unwind at night, a sugar body scrub is the perfect way to kick start your Beautiful You Monday.

  • Welcome to My World

    Those of you know me, know that I’m 100% girl. Not a tomboy – never have been. I grew up playing with Barbie and was one of those girls who put my makeup on after leaving the house. I quickly became an expert at applying eyeliner on the bumpy bus ride to middle school. I grew into a woman who loved makeup so much that I became a licensed esthetician and branded my own line of cosmetics for heaven sake.

    Then I gave birth to a little boy and my world forever changed. I was introduced to Matchbox cars, snakes and bugs, little shoes covered in mud, and the almighty building block. From the time Dylan was 16 months old he was playing with these large plastic things, Mega Blocks, that seemed to entertain him.

    December 2004

    It didn’t take long until he was playing with LEGO Duplo and then it happened. I bought him a LEGO set when he was 4 years old and shortly after took him to LEGOLAND. I made my first exceedingly large purchase to the LEGO store when he was 6 years old. Not realizing what I had started – until I saw the excitement on my child’s face – and our world has never been the same.

    December 2009

    Wooden blocks? Yeah, he played with them at preschool but never really asked for them at home. Rather than build something with the blocks, he would sort them by shape. He had Lincoln Logs and those seemed good – for a little while anyway. He made fences for his animals and would build the log cabin.

    Nothing held his attention longer than 30 minutes – that is until LEGO came into his life. I don’t even want to know how much I have spent on all the LEGO creations in his room, but how can I put a price on his happiness? (or the hours of silence I get when he is building)

    I recently wrote an article for OC Moms about why building blocks are great gifts for kids and after doing some research I learned a lot about the different types of blocks that are available for children.

    And over the years I have learned that the world of LEGO isn’t so bad – I actually like building with them – but don’t tell my son that. It might tarnish my reputation of being a girly-girl. I really hope that Santa brings him what he wants this year because I want to help build the Millennium Falcon!

    2011 Christmas Wish List LEGO

    What kind of building blocks do your kids play with?
    Do they have a special LEGO set on their Christmas list?

  • Five on Friday – Starbucks Love

    It’s no secret that I am head over heels in love with Starbucks coffee.

    Any time of day. Any time of year.

    Today a friend posted on Twitter “Honestly don’t know what I’d do without coffee” (of course I was drinking my morning Starbucks when I read this and without even thinking I replied “Me either. It’s like oxygen – I need it to survive”


    Now we know this isn’t true, I can survive without coffee. I just choose not to. 


    Today’s Five on Friday is dedicated to coffee and why I love my Starbucks.



    … and when nobody else would, Starbucks gave me a Gold Card. Now that’s Love.


  • Wordless Wednesday – Finding Inner Peace

  • Ah, to be a child at Christmas

    As much as I love being a Mom at Christmas, there is that little part of me that still wishes I was a child for the month of December.

    Writing a letter to Santa. The excitement and anticipation of sitting on Santa’s lap. Baking holiday cookies with my Mom and sneaking a cookie from the tray. Opening the little doors on an advent calendar to see what the elves had left for me.

    Hanging the stockings and trying so hard to fall asleep on Christmas Eve – but the excitement of Christmas morning would take over my body and keep me tossing and turning in my bed. Hearing “if you don’t close your eyes and go to sleep Santa won’t come” only made me want to stay awake and see him for myself.

    The sheer joy on a child’s face Christmas morning is something I wish I could bottle and save forever.

    Sure, being a Mom I still get to participate in the excitement and anticipation – but it’s not the same. Especially this year. Dylan is now 8 years old and I fear it will be his last year believing.
    Will Christmas still be as much fun and allow me to relive my childhood next year if he knows my personal relationship with Santa?

    Will he be mad at me for not being 100% truthful?

    For now I will enjoy the magic and the time I have. Because I still believe. Do you?

  • Beautiful You Mondays – Eye Cream Myth

    Welcome to the newest weekly post on my blog. I wanted to find a way to incorporate my background in skincare and cosmetics and decided to start a weekly post on Mondays. Named after the tag line from my previous company, Shel Cosmetics, Beautiful You Mondays will offer tips, product reviews and advice on how you can bring out the most beautiful you.

    Let’s talk about eye creams and the myths associated with them.

    Myth – Eye creams will fight bags and wrinkles under your eyes.

    I’m sorry to say, this is just not true. The bags that develop under your eyes are most likely caused by tissue damage and the breakdown of collagen deep under the layers of skin. No matter what an eye cream promises, the cream simply can’t penetrate that far beneath the surface.

    So what can eye creams do? Why should you even bother using an eye cream?

    Although the formulation of an eye cream is not much different than a moisturizer, there are some benefits to using an eye cream. Eye creams can target specific areas around the eye and help diminish fine lines and wrinkles. This is done by targeting the eye area with ingredients that will give extra nourishment to the thin layers of skin that surround the eye.

    Many eye creams have a silicone-like formulation and work best if absorbed into the skin rather than rubbed in as with a regular face moisturizer. When applying an eye cream, you should use your ring finger and dab around the eye area. Do not try to rub in the eye cream. Let the cream absorb into your skin – it usually takes only a few minutes. This also avoids unnecessary rubbing and tugging on the delicate skin around your eyes.

    Do you use an eye cream? What is your favorite eye cream and why?

    I’d love to hear your thoughts in the comments below.

  • Step Back in Time with Heritage Hill Holidays

    Dylan and I recently had the pleasure of attending a special holiday media preview at Heritage Hill Historical Park and we had such a great time. The entire park is lit up and decorated with holiday decor. Not just any decorations, but holiday decorations authentic to the 1800’s. It gave us both the opportunity to see how our parents and grandparents lived and celebrated the holidays.

    Heritage Hill Historical Park is tucked away behind a shopping center in Lake Forest, so if you don’t know about you just might miss it … and that would a terrible thing because a visit here is like a history lesson, only much more fun!

    Ever wonder what it was like to go to school in the 1800’s? You can visit the El Toro Grammar School (1890) and find out.

    Dylan got a first hand look and even got to ring the school bell. Each blackboard has a different grade level written on it and and Dylan thought it was strange that all the desks were different sizes. I told him that all the kids were in the same classroom. He said, “what?”

    One of my favorite buildings was St. George’s Episcopal Mission (1891). Just walking up the steps gave me a feeling of peace and when I walked through the doors it was surreal.

    Something about this building struck me and I felt so connected. I could have sat in here for hours looking at the details of the handcrafted pews and wooden floors. The tree is decorated with candles and handmade crocheted snowflakes.

    The beauty resonates from every corner of the mission.

    Next stop was the Serrano Adobe (circa 1863) – this is the original building as it was built here. (The other buildings were brought here to save them from destruction) The Saddleback Valley and El Toro was once a thriving Mexican Ranch area.

    The Harvey Bennett Ranch House (1903) takes you through the early citrus farming days. This is where I really felt at home because so many of the decorations and furnishings reminded me of my grandparents.

    Now, what would a media event be without some special treats? Taco Maria and The Tailgate Truck were there with delicious food to fill our tummies and then it was time for dessert … Yum!

    This was our first time tasting the delicious cupcakes and pushcakes from Meringue Bake Shop and Kristin did not disappoint. I will not lie, I had two cupcakes and a bite of Dylan’s puchcake.

    Come celebrate the holidays at Heritage Hill Historical Park with your family at one of their annual events.



    30th Annual Victorian Christmas – Dec. 3 from 11 a.m. to 3 p.m.
    Enjoy holiday traditions with musical performers, local craft vendors, and food for purchase. Families will be able to churn butter, make hand-dipped candles, and decorate cookies with Mrs. Claus.



    Candlelight Tour – Dec. 10 & 11 from 5:30 p.m. to 8:30 p.m. 
    Over 1,000 luminaries will light the buildings and pathways of the park. Holiday carolers, local musicians, storytellers, and other seasonal entertainment will make this an evening to remember. Santa will be here for the kids along with warm apple cider, hot cocoa, and homemade sweets.

    The cost for each event is $4 for adults and $3 for kids (ages 3-12) Parking is free.

    Heritage Hill Historical Park is located at 25151 Serrano Road, Lake Forest 92630
    For more information visit www.ocparks.com/heritagehill/ or call 949-923-2230

  • Five on Friday – Christmas Wish List

    It’s December and in my house that means it’s time to start making out that Christmas Wish List. The one time of year that you can ask for anything you want, no limitations, with the hopes that Jolly Old St. Nicholas will bring you what you asked for. The hopes that you have been good all year and stayed off the naught list fill your mind as you write out that letter to Santa.

    As a single parent, I not only get to write my own Christmas Wish List, but I get to buy my own presents and wrap them too! How lucky am I?

    You may be wondering why I do this. Well, Santa is big in my house and one year I didn’t have any presents under the tree from Santa. Dylan was about 3 years old and asked me if I was on the naughty list. I couldn’t have my child thinking I was bad, so every year after that I got presents under the tree and a stocking from Santa. This may be his last year “believing” … so I’m writing my best Christmas Wish List ever. Of course, I won’t be getting these things, but that’s why it’s called a wish list.

    Dear Santa,

    I have been a good girl all year long. I have made my bed and brushed my teeth every night. I took Dylan to LEGOLAND and the zoo. We even took three vacations this year – San Diego, Monterey, and we just got back from visiting my Dad in Lakeport. I work hard and don’t ask for much throughout the year. Please look over my list and bring me something special.

    1. Blue iPad 2 with iOS 5 and iCloud
    2. Citizen Eco-Drive watch with mother of pearl face and diamonds
    3. Frye “Jane” Tall Leather Boots – size 7 please
    4. Anything you can fit in your sack from Sur la Table
    5. A house with a washer and dryer and a backyard so Dylan can have a dog
    Love,
    Michelle
    That’s my Five on Friday (no limitations) Christmas Wish List – What’s would you ask Santa for this year if you could have anything you wanted?

  • The Great Weight Debate

    One week into the holiday season and I already feel like I have gained 5 lbs. after the Thanksgiving leftovers. The older I get, the harder it is to work of the weight gain and I still have Christmas and New Years to get through.

    I try to resist, really, I do. I read all the articles in magazines about healthy eating, you know the ones right next to the amazing recipe for a holiday dessert you just have to make. I scan the blog posts about eating healthier and how it’s soooo easy to keep the weight off. Yeah, right … what world do you live in and how fast is your metabolism?

    It’s not that I eat that bad either. French fries – sure, but only 1-2 times a month. That’s not that much. I happen to love cooking, I’m Italian for heaven sake, we cook and we eat! And I bake – double whammy!

    So I am left with what I like to call the great weight debate. It wasn’t too long ago that I lost 30 lbs. and felt awesome. I kept the weight off for about a year and then it slowly crept back up on me. A few pounds here, another 5 lbs. there – and before I knew it, I had gained 20 lbs back.

    Do I exercise? No, not really.
    Would that make a difference? Probably.
    Do I have the time? No, not really.
    Could I make the time? Probably.

    So, as I enter the month of December, I will not deprive myself of my Peppermint Lattes or the occasional Cranberry Bliss Bar. Seriously people – these only come around once a year and I love my Starbucks.

    Instead, I will once and for all accept that this is the weight I should be. No matter how much dieting or changing of eating habits I do, I always come back to this weight. My son will love me regardless of the number on the scale. My family will do the same. As for my friends, my true friends, the will love me and accept me too. For those people that look down on me because I’m not a size 4 anymore … well, I don’t need people like that in my life and neither do you.

    Do you struggle with the great weight debate? Why do we, as women, put such an emphasis on the size of our clothes and that damn number on the scale?

  • Wordless Wednesday – Then and Now

    Same boy. Same gravel road.

    What a difference 5 years makes.

    Then (2006) and Now (2011)