Category: School

  • Why didn’t someone tell me that parenting involved a four-letter word?

    Ah, the joys of becoming a parent – I can still remember the day I heard my son’s heartbeat for the first time. I was a mom. Wow, a little person was growing inside of me. The showers followed with cute clothes and toys – diapers and blankets. I remember thinking ‘what fun this is going to be’ …

    Then I got the book. You know, the book that we all read when we are pregnant and assume the worst when we read about a symptom that remotely resembles how we feel. The What to Expect When Your Expecting book. Come on, you know it was on the table next to your bed.

    Now I remember talking to friends about how I would never sleep again. How I would never go to the bathroom alone again. How I would grow to loathe laundry.

    But nobody ever told me about this …

    Math? I have to teach somebody math?

    Are you kidding me?

    In four short months Dylan has gone from simple adding and subtracting (with borrowing, of course) to multiplication, to division, and now fractions. Talk about a flashback to math anxiety. Not only do I have to be calm and try to explain this, but I have to explain it in a way that my son doesn’t burst into tears out of frustration.

    And I fear this is only the beginning. Algebra and geometry are soon to follow. Not to mention science and the dreaded periodic table, biology and our friend the amoeba, and the building of a California mission. Oh my, I’m having anxiety just thinking about it.

    I can handle the attitude of an 8-year old going on 14, the arguments about taking a shower (because we know boys don’t like showers) – I can even handle the selective hearing that all boys must be born with. But school – again? I mean really, I did this when I was a kid and then went back to school a few years ago to earn my bachelor degree. Why in the world would I want to do another round of school?

    More importantly, why don’t people tell you this stuff before you have kids?

  • Help Local Schools by Recycling

    File Photo – The Orange County Register

    If you are anything like me, you want to help your child’s school – but writing a check for $100 just isn’t in the budget. Sure, you can buy a magazine subscription from the school fundraiser – but do you really need another magazine delivered to your home?

    After doing some research I found that many local schools, including my son’s school, have community recycling days. Cans, plastic bottles, newspapers … some even have plain old paper recycling (the junk mail and envelopes from bills)

    You can read my article from The Orange County Register on OC Moms website. There are some great ways you can help local schools raise money for science, art, school gardens, and so much more!

  • Do Your Kids Play?

    A new school year has begun and we are finally getting back in the swing of things. Homework, packing lunches, nightly reading, and so on. And as this school year begins, I once again find myself contemplating how I can make this year better than last year.

    The emails and papers coming home from Dylan’s school about various after-school clubs and sports are well … to be honest, a little overwhelming.

    They all sound wonderful, but come with a price. Yes, the clubs and sports programs will cost me money – money that isn’t really in my budget – but the other cost is much greater in my opinion.

    The cost of my son’s childhood.

    He loves Cub Scouts and the after-school science program. He joined the science program last year and really got something out of it. I don’t mind paying for this. The program meets right after school one day a week and lasts only one hour. It ends just in time for me to pick him up after I get off work.

    So what about soccer, tennis, Spanish, keyboard, chess, art, music, and swimming? These are all excellent programs for children, but do children really need to participate in all of them? Many parents will sign their children up for multiple after-school programs. Who makes this decision?

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  • My Little Mathematician

    Sometimes Dylan just leaves me speechless because I don’t remember being so excited about getting a “real” textbook, or about being able to bring the textbook home for homework. Seriously, sometimes I wonder where he gets it from … everyone knows Math is not my favorite subject!

    I really worry about what I’m going to do when he asks me for help with his math homework one day – and I won’t be able to explain it to him because I will have no clue as to what he is doing!

  • First Day of School

    Well, it’s official. My little boy is all grown up and a big 3rd grader. I think this is the first year he is actually bigger than the backpack! He was so excited to start school that he just walked (or should I say ran) to the car this morning.

    When he got home from school I asked him what is favorite thing was about 3rd grade. His response … I get a real math book! Not the kind you tear the pages out of. And even cooler, I get my very own planner!

    Such a proud mom!

  • How Do You Fight Germs On The Go?

    There is no denying that germs are everywhere … and if you have children, then you know how quickly germs can spread. Some people call me crazy, but I carry hand sanitizer with me everywhere I go and have even been known to use it after I wash my hands in a public restroom. Yes, I said after I wash my hands! Just imagine how many people have used the doorknob or faucet without washing their hands. Eewww!

    About 5 years ago I found a wonderful new product that I will admit is a must have in my purse, desk, kitchen and car. No more liquid messy hand sanitizers for me that sting and burn when I have a cut on my hand. Meet CleanWell. And say goodbye to germs naturally. CleanWell All Natural Hand Sanitizer is nothing short of amazing! Simple to use and no mess. Even a child can use this …

    Kids touch everything in sight and don’t thin twice about picking up something like popcorn and eating it without cleaning their hands. Today, at Legoland, my son kept holding the metal rails and sliding his hands along them as we stood in line for the rides. Then he asked for some popcorn … was he crazy? I said, “You know what to do.” He quickly reached into my purse and grabbed the CleanWell. Two sprays, a few rubs of his hands, and he was ready to start munching on his popcorn. No bad taste, no stickiness, and no waiting for his hands to dry.

    CleanWell All-Natural Hand Sanitizer has been proven to kill 99.99% of germs naturally.

    • Alcohol free
    • Safe for kids
    • Leaves hands soft
    • Citrus Herb scent
    • 4x more uses per oz. than alcohol gel

    Back to school with CleanWell

    With the school year starting in a few weeks, I know the germs are going to be everywhere … but my son is prepared with his CleanWell All-Natural Hand Sanitizer in his backpack.

    Is CleanWell on your Back-to-School shopping list?

    Are your kids protected from germs when you’re not around?


    LifewithDylan.com is a Registered Affiliate of CleanWell Products. All opinions are of my own.
  • Another Milestone in Life

    grad·u·a·tion (noun) – the award or acceptance of an academic degree or diploma.


    com·mence·ment (noun) –  the ceremonies or the day for conferring degrees or diplomas.


    I don’t remember my Kindergarten graduation, but know that I had one. I vaguely remember my 6th grade promotion and feeling excited about starting Junior High, yet at the same time worried about changing classrooms and remembering where everything was. 


    Junior High graduation. I was cool. Excited. No longer did I have to say I was in the “blank” grade. Now I was a Freshman. At the time it was great … until I got there and quickly learned I was at the bottom of the bunch. Then a Sophomore. 


    OK, getting better. Now there were people below me. I knew my way around the school and thought this isn’t so bad. Junior year … driving, braces off, had my share of heartache. However, I survived and was ready to hold the coveted title of “Senior”


    High School graduation. I did it. Diploma in hand. I survived the heartache, the tests, the homework, the teachers I didn’t like, the snobby girls, and all that we know as high school. A sense of accomplishment. 


    I was free. Never to do another report (as they are called in high school), no more tests, and no more homework. The world was my oyster to do whatever I pleased. I was not college bound. Didn’t care to be. I wanted to live life.


    Well, after the harsh reality hit I took a few courses at the local Junior College. Not happy. Didn’t know what I wanted to be. What I wanted to do with my life. All I knew was I loved kids and I wanted to be a Mom someday. 


    Flash forward 15 years and I’m a Mom. A single mom. Not quite what I had planned. Happy.


    Flash forward another 5 years. I am now 38 years old with a 5 year old son. Working full-time and raising him the best I can. Haven’t touched a textbook or written a paper (as they are called in college) for almost 20 years. I was a high school graduate … what more did I need?


    I needed to finish college. 
    Not for a job. 
    Not because my parents told me to.
    Not for more pay. 


    But because I wanted to do it. I wanted to be able to tell my son that his Mom was a College Graduate. I wanted that sense of accomplishment and self-worth. To tell my son that no matter what, no matter how hard life is, now matter how many times you feel like giving up … anything is possible.


    Flash forward another 2 1/2 years. Now 23 years since I graduated high school and received that coveted “diploma”. At age 41, I will be walking in a commencement ceremony tomorrow as my family and son witness me receiving not a diploma, but a college degree. 
    Bachelor of Science in Psychology.


    Excited. Yes. 
    Scared. Yes. 


    Am I dreaming? No.
    Will I ever stop learning? No.


    Surreal. Yes. 
    Proud. Yes. 
    Accomplished. Absolutely.

  • Mom and Dylan Aced the Final Paper!

    Doing the happy dance all over the living room with Dylan. The final grades have been posted and I will graduate with a 3.6 GPA. Thanks to my little environmentalist/animal lover and his awesome choice of movies for my final college paper! Perfect score!

    Professors comment “Excellent analysis of this film. Your comments were thorough with good examples to support them. Grade 100%


    Film Critique Disney Oceans
    Michelle Fryer



    Film Critique Disney Oceans
    I have seen some amazing documentaries about the ocean and the life that lives beneath the water’s surface, but Disneynature Oceans is in a league of its own. Yes, there are whales breaching, dolphins leaping at sunset, penguins walking in groups, and the solitary polar bear amid the lone Arctic; however, this ecological documentary film takes the viewer far beyond the common ocean creatures. Directors Jacques Perrin and Jacques Cluzaud did a spectacular job of capturing the vast undersea world and taking the audience along on a ride of a lifetime.
    The fact that 75% of the earth is covered by water and we know more about outer space is astonishing. Disneynature Oceans takes the audience far beyond the ocean’s surface and the pounding waves to uncover the mysteries and hidden treasures that call the ocean their home. Released on Earth Day 2010, this film combines the subtle message of environmental awareness with outstanding cinematography, a melodic musical score by Bruno Coulais, and an almost poetic-like narration by Pierce Brosnan.
    With the exception of the beginning and ending scene where we see a young boy standing on the shore looking out into the vast waters of the ocean, this film is set entirely in the ocean. At first, the narration of Pierce Brosnan is strong, but quickly becomes a peaceful ambient backdrop to the main focus of the oceanic creatures. The films composition is solely the marine life who call the ocean their home with little if any background images. The use of underwater cameras and advanced technology with a new construction of digital cameras captures images that most people will never see firsthand. 
    In one of the opening scenes, Pierce Brosnan is narrating about the vast world below the water’s surface as the camera zooms in on the ocean from outer space and the audience sees what appear to be stars in the night sky. As if magically transformed before our eyes, these stars dissolve into small specs in the water and then the audience realizes what we are seeing is a school of moon jellyfish gliding through the depths of the ocean. The lighting from the sun above the water enhances the transparency of jellyfish and gives way to their delicate bodies and intricate tentacles. Without narration, the silence becomes meditative and the soft sound of violins adds to the sheer beauty of these creatures.
    The filming of Oceans is so spectacular that the audience becomes mesmerized by the images of rays soaring through the clear blue waters like a kite and the magnificent blanket octopus flowing feely life a scarf blowing in the wind. The gentle humpback whales swimming gracefully through the water and then breaching above the surface to show their massive size and strength is awe inspiring. As a pod of spinner dolphins swim through the water, the specialized underwater cameras follow alongside of them and with what seems like one swift movement the dolphins are leaping and spinning in the air only to fall elegantly back into the water. The editing of the underwater camera footage and the above water camera footage flow seamlessly together and allow the audience to feel as if they are swimming right alongside the dolphins.
    One of my favorite scenes occurs when we see a school of common dolphins swimming swiftly underwater in a carefully executed pattern to trap sardines. The camera then cuts to a flock of sea birds flying overhead and the orchestra music begins to play. As the tempo of the music begins to escalate, the sea birds began to dive into the water as if they were torpedoes. The musical score is in perfect rhythm with the sea birds as they hit the water and faint sounds of water splashes are heard. As the camera cuts quickly between the birds diving into the water from above and the underwater feeding of the birds and the dolphins from below, the orchestra music becomes louder as sharks and a blue whale joins in. The musical score is a carefully played out concert moving in rhythm with the waves, dolphins, sea birds, and whale as this feeding frenzy occurs above and below the water’s surface.
    One of my favorite uses of sound in the film is the use of silence. With the exception of the soft-spoken poetic narration of Pierce Brosnan, which is intermittently heard throughout the film, the only sounds heard are those of the ocean and the life beneath the surface. The directors understand the importance of watching a mother humpback whale swim with her calf and hearing nothing but the sounds of the humpback’s song. To show how fierce the ocean can be and the dangers that face some of the creatures like the penguins in Antarctica, the sound of the waves crashing against the rocks is the only sound needed as we watch the penguins struggle to ride the wave up and jump to the safety of dry land.
    I will admit at times I questioned the camera angles and how some of the footage was possible. In particular, the scene where a great white shark is within inches of the camera lens as it is filmed from head to tail. Just as the camera turns around the other side of the shark, another underwater camera can be seen in the distance. The point of view now changes to that of a wide angle lens as we see the view from this other camera. Indeed, there is a diver with a camera, only inches away from a great white shark. As Jacques Cluzaud states on the official Disney website (n.d.), “We took the time to allow the animals to invite us in. We waited to become a fish among fish” (Production Notes, para. 1). The wait resulted in what I consider to be one of the best documentaries I have seen about the world’s oceans. I have always had a love for the ocean and I believe that the combination of outstanding cinematography, flawless editing, and a powerfully moving musical score make Disneynature Oceans a must see for everyone.
     Disneynature Oceans is a tranquil meditation of aquatic life set to rhythmic music with small glimpses of the harsh reality some creatures face with the perils of being at the lower end of the food chain. Filmed in five oceans all across the globe, this film will inspire the audience to learn more about the mysteries of the deep and ignite a love for the underwater world. I give Disneynature Oceans four out of four stars.
    References
    Disney. (n.d.). Disneynature Oceans. Retrieved from http://disney.go.com/disneynature/oceans/
  • Mom Is Done!

    After 2 1/2 long years of studying, writing papers, sleepless nights, countless pots of coffee, and hard work I have finished college. Although the announcements came a week ago and I turned in my final paper last Saturday, it just didn’t seem real to me until the knock on my door at 7:00 pm tonight. Who could it be? Ah, the FedEx man with a package. As I tore open the box with excitement I found myself suddenly in shock. Is this really mine? Did I really do this?

    Yes, Yes I did! I had a goal and I finished it. In exactly one month I will proudly wear this cap, gown, and stole in a commencement ceremony where I will be awarded my Bachelor of Science in Psychology. As with most things I do, I could not have completed this without the love and support of my family and friends. All the times I wanted to quit and all the times I questioned myself as to why I was doing this, these people supported me and encouraged me to keep going.

    Thinking back, I gave up many things (mostly a life outside of work and school), but nobody gave up more than Dylan. This small boy who was only in kindergarten when I started gave up so much of himself so that I could do my homework. I feel like I missed out on so much quality time with him, but I know that making up for that lost time will be so much fun!